Showing posts with label Kasey Fox Canberra Family Lawyer. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Kasey Fox Canberra Family Lawyer. Show all posts

Monday, 3 April 2017

Who keeps the pet after divorce? #familylaw

A recent Australian family law decision illustrates the difficulty parties can face when pets are involved in a separation.
In Downey & BealeJudge Harman was asked to decide who should retain the dog as part of the final settlement between a husband and wife.
In this case, the parties and their lawyers managed to agree on a property settlement and save themselves the additional emotional and financial cost of going to a final hearing. They managed to agree about how to divide every single piece of property except for one – the dog. And before you ask, yes, the dog is considered “property”.
As a dog (and cat) owner myself, the definition of animals as ‘property’ does not sit well with me. In his Judgement, Judge Harman quotes Roger Caras saying “dogs are not our whole life, but they make our lives whole”. I couldn’t agree more. However, the fact is that at the moment, animals, including beloved pets, are treated as property for the purposes of a property settlement between married and de facto couples.
In this particular case, His Honour considered a number of factors regarding the ownership of the dog (side note: believe it or not, the dog’s name was withheld from the judgement – presumably because using it’s name could have identified the parties – it makes me very curious as to what sort of unique name he/she may have had. For the purposes of this post, we’ll call her Lassie).
Some of considerations for the Court included:
  • – Who purchased Lassie and for what purpose (ie was she a birthday gift to the wife);
  • – Who contributed to Lassie’s costs (ie vet care, dog food, etc);
  • – Who Lassie lived with prior to, during and after the marriage (ie whose possession was she in);
  • – Who was listed as “owner” in certain documents relating to Lassie;
  • – Whether she was registered, when that occurred and in whose name it was
The Wife’s case was that she had found Lassie as a puppy for sale (before marriage), took the Husband to see Lassie and the Husband offered to pay for Lassie as an early birthday present. This purchase occurred a few months prior to the Wife’s birthday. The wife also produced bank statements showing expenses she had paid for Lassie and documents from the vet listing her as Lassie’s owner. Lassie had also remained with the Wife after separation.
The Husband produced evidence that he initially purchased Lassie – and he disputed that it was as a gift. Unlike the wife however, he was unable to produce other documents regarding contributions he made to Lassie during the relationship. He did produce registration papers listing himself as Lassie’s owner, however he had only taken this step some 8 months after the parties separated, and when Lassie was still in the Wife’s possession.
Ultimately, His Honour held that the wife should retain possession and ownership of Lassie.
It is not uncommon in property proceedings for people to reach agreement on all of the “big ticket” items (such as the house and superannuation) and then get stuck on smaller items. Sometimes, this can result in the entire agreement falling over and the parties proceeding to hearing on all issues. Sensibly in this case, the Husband and Wife retained their agreement on the big ticket items, and only sought a judgment about the one item in dispute. This still would have been at additional cost to the parties, but clearly Lassie meant more to them than the legal fees.
We have a number of animal lovers in our office, and sometimes they even bring their pets in to the office to pay a visit. We understand that even though a pet is not viewed as a significant “asset” in the pool, it can be the most important thing to you. 
Kasey Fox is a Canberra Family Lawyer and Director at Farrar Gesini Dunn,Canberra Office 

Originally published as Who keeps the puppy? #NationalPuppyDay


Wednesday, 8 March 2017

Are you a Super Woman?

I often hear people talking about “Super Women” who can ‘do it all’ - but what about the rest of us who can’t do it all?
Every day I see women giving themselves a hard time for not living up to the Super Woman ideal. This International Women’s Day #IWD2017, it’s time that we embrace the idea that being a Super Woman doesn’t have to mean doing it all. In fact – how about defining a “Super Woman” as someone who does what she can, with what she has, and supports other women to be their own kind of Super Woman?
When I think of Super Women in my life, they come in many forms. Just a few include:
  • the colleague who juggles work and children, and still finds time to mentor and encourage others
  • the young assistant who has decided to go back to University to study law while still working fulltime
  • the family member who had her first child in her early 20’s, her fourth child in her early 40’s, went through 2 separations and then got her degree and dream job
  • the client who, in the middle of an ugly divorce, came up with a genius way of getting her daughter to give up her dummy
  • the friend who spent many of her single years caring for her mother and grandfather
  • the single mother that works full time, cares for her son, and also manages to volunteer at his school and coach his sporting team – all while having fabulous lashes!
  • the junior lawyer who gave up her free time on Australia Day to go the extra mile for a client
  • the fellow professional who has a little one, and one on the way, and still manages to look like she’s just walked off a movie set
  • the many women I know who have struggled with depression, and still manage to get out of bed most days
And then there is me – I’m a 34 year old lawyer, working in family law in Canberra. I am also a Director of the firm that I’ve been with since I started my career. I have a partner, pets and a house, but no kids. I don’t have a lot of the other stresses that some women have. By the usual definition, I can’t be a Super Woman because I don’t have kids and don’t do it all. But I think sometimes I am a Super Woman. We all are.
Some weeks, I’ve worked multiple 12 hour + days, pre-cooked meals for the week, babysat for friends, taken care of my multiple animals, worked on my client’s cases at 3am, painted the fence, remembered to call my mother, done the dishes, taken some ‘me’ time and just generally been awesome.
Other weeks, I’ve been impressed to get through the day without a run in my stockings.
Hey, I’m human. I can’t always be a Super Woman. No one can.
So maybe it’s time women gave each other, and more importantly ourselves, a break.
While writing this, I heard Emma Watson on the news say “Feminism is not a stick to beat other women with.” Very true. It’s also not a stick to beat ourselves with.
So give yourself a break and acknowledge the great things you do.
You ARE a Super Woman.

Originally published as "Super Women ?" at http://www.fgd.com.au/super-women/